Identify Remedies by Speech , Answering , Voice Tone.

Ek Homeopath ko prejudiced nahi hona chahiye Usko apne Khud ke emotions par control hona chahiye

Clinic par baithne se pehle khud se poochna chahiye:

• Kya main normal hoon?
• Kya main peaceful hoon?
• Kya main emotionally balanced hoon?
• Kya main clinic mein shaant mann se baitha hoon?
• Kya meri apni feelings mere case taking ko affect to nahi kar rahi?

Doctor ki khud ki tone hamesha normal or mild honi chahiye.

Agar doctor ki tone hi aggressive hai To patient ka reaction bhi badal jaayega. Phir aap patient ko nahi dekh rahe honge Aap apne effect ko dekh rahe honge Isliye ek Homeopath ka khud normal hona bahut zaroori hai

Kyunki patient ka answer sirf uske upar depend nahi karta…Woh aapke upar bhi depend karta hai. Tabhi aap patient ke answers ko sahi tareeke se samajh paoge.

Agar ek young lady patient aati hai Aur doctor khud emotionally disturbed hai To uska observation bhi affect ho sakta hai Isliye physician ka neutral rehna bahut zaroori hai.

• Aap kaise baithe ho.
• Aap kaise dekh rahe ho.
• Aap kis tone mein sawaal pooch rahe ho.
• Yeh sab bhi patient ke answer ko influence karta hai

Homeopathy mein sirf words important nahi hote.

Patient ke Words ke saath Uski voice Uska bolne ka andaz ya tone Uski speed Aur uski energy.

Hum sab apni awaaz se bolte hain Har insaan ki ek alag voice personality hoti hai.

• Kisi ki voice bahut energetic hoti hai.
• Kisi ki voice bahut slow hoti hai.
• Kisi ki voice mein heaviness hoti hai.
• Kisi ki voice mein depression ka ehsaas hota hai.

Aapko Kya pakadna hai.

• Kai patients aise hote hain jo bolte hue bhi thake hue lagte hain Jaise awaaz ke andar hi bojh ho Jaise har lafz nikalne mein mehnat lag rahi ho Khaas taur par depression wale patients mein yeh bahut dekhne ko milta hai.
• Aaj ki generation mein bhi yeh bahut mil raha hai. Ab sawal yeh hai ki pakdenge kaise?
  • Unki awaaz se.
  • Unki baaton ke topic se.
  • Unke expression se.
  • Woh baar baar kis baat par wapas aa rahe hain?
  • Woh baar baar kis cheez ka zikr kar rahe hain?
  • Woh baar baar “main” bol rahe hain?
  • Ya baar baar apne failures ki baat kar rahe hain?
  • Ya baar baar apni achievements ki baat kar rahe hain?
• Kai baar sirf ek sawaal poochhne se poora chehra badal jaata hai.
  • Aapne husband ke baare mein poocha Aur aankhon ka expression badal gaya.
  • Aapne family ke baare mein poocha Aur awaaz badal gayi.
  • Aapne job ke baare mein poocha Aur patient ka posture badal gaya.
• Kai patients har baat ko justify karte hain.
• Kai patients har baat ka reason poochte hain.
• Kai patients har baat ka defence karte hain.
• Yeh sab cheezein answer ke andar hi milti hain.
• Aap unse ek tension wala sawaal poochiye Aur phir dekhiye unke chehre par kya badlav aata hai
• Kai baar aankhon ka expression badal jaata hai Kai baar poora chehra badal jaata hai.
• Kai baar patient dheere se kuch bolta hai Lekin uski awaaz aap tak poori nahi pahunchti.
• Kai baar woh murmur karta hai.
• Kai baar woh apne aap se bolta hua lagta hai..
• Kai log bahut meharbani aur softness ke saath baat karte hain.
• Kai log bahut attractively baat karte hain.
• Kai log aapke saath poori tarah involved rehte hain.Aur kai log emotionally present hi nahi hote
• Kai patients aapke saamne baithe hote hain Lekin unka dhyan kahin aur hota hai.Aap sawaal pooch rahe hote ho Lekin unka mann kisi aur jagah ghoom raha hota hai.Aise patients ko baar baar wapas laana padta hai.Ji, meri taraf dekhiye.Ji, mujhe batayiye.Ji, abhi hum clinic mein hain.
• Kai patients ko baar baar present moment mein laana padta hai Warna woh apni duniya mein chale jaate hain.
• Kai patients bahut der baad jawab dete hain.Question poochne aur answer aane ke beech lamba gap hota hai.
• Yeh chhoti chhoti baatein hi kai baar humein remedy ke bahut kareeb le jaati hain.
• Kai patients aankhen band karke baat karte hain.
• Kai patients aankhen neeche karke baat karte hain.
• Kai patients seedha aankhon mein dekhkar baat karte hain..
• kai patients aapki taraf dekhte hi nahi.Yeh sab cheezein observe karni hain.
• Kai baar patient aankhen band karke aapke sawaalon ka jawab de raha hota hai.
• Ab Agar patient aankhen band karke poori history de raha hai, to us observation ko ignore nahi karna.

Yeh sab important hai.

Acute cases mein to yeh aur bhi important ho jaata hai Kyuki acute case mein aapke paas bahut zyada time nahi hota Patient ko sunne ka waqt kam hota hai Do ya teen observations hi kaafi hoti hain.

Jaise Chamomilla patient.

• Uski awaaz hi aapko bahut kuch bata degi
• Uski tone hi aapko disturb karegi
• Uski awaaz hi aapko react karne par majboor karegi.

Kuch patients aap se door door rehte hain Aankhon mein aankhen nahi milate Bahut kam bolte hain Sirf zaroorat bhar ki baat karte hain. Aur kehte hain:

Doctor sahab, jaldi theek kar do. Mujhe kaam par jana hai.

• Woh apni poori kahani nahi sunana chahte –
• Woh disturb nahi hona chahte
• Woh zyada questions pasand nahi karte
• Bahut zyada sawaal poochhne par woh irritate hone lagte hain.

Phir kuch patients aise hote hain jo haste haste ro dete hain Aur kuch rote rote hans dete hain

• Kabhi unki tone bahut upar chali jaati hai – Kabhi bahut neeche aa jaati hai
• Kabhi andhere se roshni ki taraf jaate hain aur kabhi roshni se andhere ki taraf
• Unke jawab bhi isi tarah badalte rehte hain – Kabhi woh bahut open hote hain
• Kabhi ekdum band ho jaate hain.

Phir kuch patients baat karte karte ruk jaate hain

• Jaise soch rahe ho ki kitna batana hai aur kitna nahi batana Jaise andar hi andar decide kar rahe ho ki yeh baat share karni hai ya nahi.
• Kai baar woh sentence aadha chhod dete hain Phir ruk jaate hain Phir doosri baat shuru kar dete hain.
• Kai patients khud se zyada doctor se sawaal poochte hain.
• Doctor sahab, aapne yeh kyun poocha?
• Doctor sahab, iska kya matlab hai?
• Doctor sahab, aap kya soch rahe ho?
• Ab yahan bhi dekhna hai ki woh knowledge lena chahte hain
• Ya woh aapke sawaalon se bachna chahte hain.
• Ya unhe aapke sawaalon se darr lag raha hai.
• Yeh sab unke jawab dene ke andaaz mein hi chhupa hota hai.
• Dheere dheere aapke saamne patient ki ek tasveer banne lagti hai.
• Q : Agar hum kisi patient ko uski voice, tone aur answer dene ke tareeke se ek remedy type mein rakh dete hain Aur phir medicine dene ke baad patient improve ho jaata hai To kya agli visit mein uska answer dene ka tareeka bhi badal jaayega? Kya uski remedy picture bhi badal jaayegi?
• A : Bilkul badal sakti hai. Lekin yahan ek baat samajhna bahut zaroori hai Humein dekhna hoga ki yeh uski aadat thi Ya uski bimari ka hissa tha.Kai baar maa-baap batate hain:
• Doctor sahab, bachpan se hi aisa hai.
  • Bachpan se hi dheere bolta hai.
  • Bachpan se hi confuse rehta hai.
  • Bachpan se hi kisi ko tang karta hai
• To phir yeh personality ka hissa bhi ho sakta hai Lekin agar yeh disease state ka hissa hai To medicine ke baad yeh badalna chahiye.
  • Agar patient pehle confused tha Aur ab clarity aa gayi To yeh improvement hai.
  • Agar patient pehle slow perception wala tha Aur ab jaldi samajhne laga hai To yeh improvement hai.
  • Agar patient pehle apni baat express nahi kar pata tha Aur ab confidence ke saath baat kar raha hai To yeh improvement hai.
  • Clarity of thought ka improve hona bhi ek important observation hai.
  • Agar yeh saari cheezein badal rahi hain To iska matlab medicine andar tak kaam kar rahi hai Lekin agar sirf symptoms change ho rahe hain Aur patient ka overall expression waise ka waisa hi hai to phir humein sochna padega.Kai baar iska matlab hota hai ki medicine superficial level par kaam kar rahi hai
  • Agar Chamomilla patient aaj bhi waise hi react kar raha hai Waise hi irritate ho raha hai Waise hi answer de raha hai To phir humein dobara sochna hoga
  • Agar pehle patient aankhon mein aansu lekar baat karta tha Aur ab wahi baat normal tareeke se kar leta hai To yeh bhi improvement hai.
  • Agar pehle patient apni baat keh nahi paata tha Aur ab khulkar bol raha hai To yeh bhi improvement hai.
• Uske baat karne ka andaaz…Uski expression…Uski confidence…Uski communication…Yeh sab cheezein bhi follow-up mein dekhni chahiye.
• Ab dekhiye..
• Maine ek doctor se kaha:
  • Apne baal thode peeche kariye.
  • Aur unhone turant mere kehne par baal peeche kar liye.
  • Maine kuch kaha…Aur saamne wale ne kaise react kiya?
  • Kya usne turant maan liya?
  • Kya usne poocha:”Doctor sahab, kyun?
  • Kya usne kaha:”Mujhe aise hi theek lagta hai Ya usne resist kiya?
  • Yeh sab cheezein bhi humein bahut kuch batati hain.
  • Kuch log immediately comply kar jaate hain.
  • Kuch log question karte hain.
  • Kuch log oppose karte hain.
  • Aur kuch log irritate ho jaate hain.
  • Yeh bhi answer ka hi ek hissa hai.
• Agar aap patient se poochte ho:
  • Aapne aise kapde kyun pehne hain?
• To dekhna hai woh react kaise karta hai.
  • Kya woh turant jawab deta hai?
  • Kya woh irritate ho jaata hai?
  • Kya woh defensive ho jaata hai?
  • Kya woh hans deta hai?
  • Kya woh sawaal ko taal deta hai?
• Yeh sab observations hain.
• Kai baar patient kuch ajeeb jawab de deta hai Ya koi aisi baat keh deta hai jo expected nahi hoti
  • Us waqt doctor ko gussa nahi karna chahiye
  • Us waqt doctor ko react nahi karna chahiye
  • Us waqt doctor ko observe karna chahiye Kyunki ho sakta hai wahi uski key ho.
  • Ho sakta hai wahi uski remedy tak le jaane wali baat ho.
  • Agar aap Chamomilla patient ko provoke karoge To uska reaction alag hoga.
  • Agar aap Pulsatilla patient ko provoke karoge To uska reaction alag hoga.
• Isliye patient ka reaction bhi uski picture ka hissa hai.
• Ek Homeopath ko observer banna padta hai.
  • Sirf listener nahi.
  • Sirf question poochhne wala nahi.
• Observe :
  • Patient kaise baithta hai…
  • Kaise uthta hai…
  • Kaise jawab deta hai…
  • Kaise chup hota hai…
  • Kaise dekhta hai…
  • Kaise hasta hai…
  • Kaise rota hai…
• Yeh sab history ka hissa hai.
• Kai baar patient clinic mein aate hi bolta hai:
  • Doctor sahab, maine bahut ilaaj karwa liye.
  • Mujhe bahut doctors ne dekha hai.
  • Mujhe ab farq nahi padta.
  • Ab yeh sentence bhi important hai.
• Uski tone aur uske expression ke saath milkar aur bhi important ho jaata hai.
• Phir woh bolta hai:
  • Mere pet mein dard rehta hai.
• Ab pet ke dard se pehle usne jo kaha tha…Woh bhi history ka hissa hai.
• Ab dekhna hai woh apne pain ko describe kaise karta hai.
  • Kya woh kehta hai:Bahut zyada dard hota hai.
  • Ya woh kehta hai:Doctor sahab, poochho mat.
  • Ya woh kehta hai: Aap samajh nahi sakte.
  • Ya woh kehta hai: Bas theek kar do.
• Har expression alag hai.
• Har expression ka apna weight hai.
  • Kai patients apne pain ko dramatize karte hain.
  • Kai patients pain ko minimize karte hain.
  • Kai patients pain ko casually batate hain.- Aur
  • kai patients pain ko describe hi nahi kar paate.
• Yeh sab humein observe karna hai.
• Bahut baar aapko remedy ke bahut kareeb le jaate hain.
• Agar aap in cheezon ko pakadna seekh jaoge To aap bhi bade-bade physicians ki tarah case ko jaldi samajhna shuru kar doge Aap bhi patient ki picture jaldi bana paoge Aur dheere dheere aapka confidence bhi badhega.Yahi aaj ki meri baat ka maksad tha Agar aap in observations ko apni daily practice mein use karna shuru kar doge
• Agar patient ko aapka question samajh nahi aata, to woh dobara poochta hai:
  • Doctor sahab, aapne kya poocha tha?
• Ab yahan do possibilities hain.-
  • Ya to patient ko question samajh nahi aaya.-
  • Ya phir patient jawab dena hi nahi chahta.

• Yeh dono cheezein alag hain.
  • “Did not understand the question” aur
  • “Don’t want to answer the question”

dono ek jaise nahi hote.

Kai patients kehte hain:

• Doctor, main kisi se koi baat share nahi karna chahta.
• Mere dukhon ki kahani mat poochiye.
• Main akela rehna chahta hoon.
• Mujhe distance chahiye.

Yeh sab cheezein humein patient ke answer ke andar hi mil jaati hain.

Kai patients ko apni takleef batane mein bhi interest nahi hota.

Woh bimaar hote hue bhi kehte hain:

• Doctor sahab, dawa de do, lekin zyada baat mat karo.
• Kai baar patient aapke saamne baithkar aankhen neeche karke baat karta hai.
• Kai baar aankhen band karke jawab deta hai.
• Kai baar aapki taraf dekhta hi nahi.

Yeh sab bhi important observations hain.

Kai baar patient itni lambi kahani shuru kar deta hai ki doctor apne original question se hi bhatak jaata hai.

Patient apna takleef bata raha hota hai Lekin hum uski baaton ke flow mein chale jaate hain Aur phir asli symptom peeche reh jaata hai.

Aise waqt mein patient ki baaton ka loop todna nahi hai Us loop ke andar hi rubrics chhupe hote hain Usi conversation ke andar se humein clues milte hain.

Pulsatilla patient kaise baat karta hai, yeh bhi observe karna zaroori hai.

Woh maximum authoritative tareeke se baat nahi karta.Uski baat mein softness hoti hai. Mithaas hoti hai.Kai baar woh bolte bolte ruk jaata hai.Kai baar aapke sawaal se pehle hi uski aankhon mein aansu aa jaate hain.

Kai patients aapse sawaal poochna shuru kar dete hain.

• Doctor sahab, aap aise kyun baithe ho?
• Doctor sahab, aap udaas lag rahe ho?
• Doctor sahab, aap thake hue lag rahe ho?

Patient ka focus apne upar hai? Ya doctor ke upar shift ho raha hai?

• Kai patients doctor ke sawaal ka jawab dene ke bajaay doctor par hi sawaal kar dete hain Yeh bhi unke answer ka ek hissa hai.
• Kai patients har question ka logical explanation dhoondhne lagte hain.

• D : Kya aap music sunte ho?
• P : Doctor sahab, music sunna galat hai kya?

Dekhiye… Jawab ke andar bhi ek pattern hai.

Kai baar patient har question ka exact jawab deta hai.

Question kiya to Jawab diya.Phir chup. Phir aap agla question poochte ho to Phir jawab dekhar Phir chup Aur phir intezaar karta hai agle sawaal ka.

Kai patients aise bhi hote hain jo har sawaal ke baad bolte rehte hain.

Unhe rokna mushkil ho jaata hai.Ek sawaal poochho Das minute ka jawab milta hai Us jawab ke andar paanch aur kahaniyan hoti hain Aur un kahaniyon ke andar bhi aur kahaniyan hoti hain.

Kai patients baar baar bolte hain:

Doctor sahab, main kya bataoon Doctor sahab, meri zindagi mein bahut kuch hua hai Doctor sahab, aap samajh nahi sakte Aur phir ek lambi kahani shuru ho jaati hai.

Kai patients direct answer nahi dete.

Seedha jawab dene ke bajaye kahani sunate hain. Question kuch aur tha Answer kahin aur jaa raha hai Yeh bhi pick-up point hai.

Kai patients authoritative tareeke se baat karte hain

Jaise doctor unse history nahi le raha Balki woh doctor ka interview le rahe hain

Sirf 10 ya 15 minute mein Aur phir aapko lagne lagta hai ki yeh patient kis group mein fit ho sakta hai. Jab aap case taking karte hain To patient ke answer karne ke tareeke par concentrate kijiye Woh aapke liye bahut helpful hoga.Kai baar sirf answer dene ke style se hi aapko remedy ke bahut kareeb pahunchne mein madad mil jaati hai.