Blames Himself for Depressive State

Yeh feeling un patients mein dekhi jaati hai jo apni depression ya bimari ki wajah khud ko maante hain. Woh doctor ko batate hain ki aaj jo takleef woh jhel rahe hain, woh unki apni galti, error ya negligence ki wajah se hai.DELIRIUM; blames himself for his folly (1): Op.Folly = Bewakoofi bhara kaam, badi galti.Patient keh sakta hai:”Main bahut der tak intezar karta raha ki problem apne aap theek ho jayegi. Ab mujhe samajh aa raha hai ki yeh meri bewakoofi thi kyunki problem ab teen guna badh gayi hai.”Yahan bewakoofi ka point yeh hai ki patient problem do guna ya zyada badhne ke baad bhi use ignore karta raha.Misal ke taur par patient jaanta hai ki ek glass wine peene se uski takleef badh jaati hai. Woh poori koshish karta hai wine na peene ki. Lekin ek din kisi party mein kisi ne wine offer ki ya wine dekh kar usne socha ki aadha glass pee lene mein kya harj hai. Agle din takleef badh gayi aur us waqt uske dimag mein aaya:”Yeh meri bewakoofi thi.”—DELUSIONS; neglected his duty; he has (13): AUR, Cycl, Dream-p, Falco-p, Hell, Hyos, Ign, Lava-f, Lyc, Naja, Nat-ar, Ptel, Puls.Neglected = Nazarandaz karna, adhura chhod dena, dhyan na dena.Duty = Zimmedari aur lagan ke saath kiya jane wala kaam.Patient aakar keh sakta hai:”Main achhi wife, husband, mother ya father nahi raha kyunki maine apne family members ko waqt nahi diya.””Jab meri maa bimaar thi tab maine unka theek se khayal nahi rakha. Aaj main khud ko is baat ke liye koshta hoon.”Kabhi patient apni bimari ki wajah se apni duty nahi nibha pata. Kabhi woh is guilt ki wajah se bimaar ho jata hai ki usne apne kaam ya family ke prati apni zimmedari poori nahi ki. Kabhi use lagta hai ki usne apni sehat ka bhi dhyan nahi rakha, jabki apne sharir ka khayal rakhna bhi uski ek duty thi.—DELUSIONS; succeed; cannot; he does everything wrong (8): Adam, Anac, Arg-n, Nur, Bapt, Germ, Nat-c, Salx-f.Succeed = Kamyab hona, jo chaha ho use hasil kar lena.Patient keh sakta hai:”Mujhe lagta hai main jo bhi karta hoon galat karta hoon aur zindagi mein kabhi kamyab nahi ho sakta.”Yeh feeling ek normal insan mein bhi ho sakti hai. Lekin jab yeh ek patient mein aa jaati hai to uske dimag par bahut pressure padta hai. Is wajah se mehnat karne ka jazba kam ho jata hai, competition ka saamna karne ki ichchha khatam hone lagti hai aur har nayi cheez shuru karne se darr lagne lagta hai.Yeh feeling baar baar fail hone ke baad paida hoti hai. Bahut paisa, izzat ya doosron ka bharosa khone ke baad bhi aa sakti hai. Yeh sirf kaam tak seemit nahi hoti, balki relationship, family welfare ya exams se bhi judi ho sakti hai.Aise patient dheere dheere apne upar se bharosa kho dete hain aur har nayi shuruaat se darrne lagte hain.—DELUSIONS; unfit for the world; he is (1): Aur.Unfit = Kisi kaam ke liye zaruri taqat, skill ya qualities ka na rehna. Bimari ki wajah se apni duty theek se na kar paana.Patient aakar keh sakta hai:”Mujhe lagta hai ki apni bimari ki wajah se main ab pehle jaisa nahi raha.””Ab main woh kaam nahi kar sakta jo pehle aasani se kar leta tha.”Duniya ke liye khud ko unfit samajhne ka matlab hai khud ko dosh dena, khud ko kosna aur yeh mehsoos karna ki ab woh duniya ke layak nahi raha.Agar hum do rubrics ko combine karein:DELUSIONS; unfit for the world; he is + CONTEMPTUOUS; self of (7): Agath-a, Agn, Aur, Cop, Falco-p, Lac-c, ThujTo sirf ek remedy common milti hai:Aur.—DELUSIONS; wrong; he has done (21): Agath-a, Aids, Ars, Aur, Aur-ar, Cycl, Dig, Falco-p, Germ, Hell, Hyos, Ign, Lyc, Merc, Nat-ar, Posit, Puls, Salx-f, Sil, Sulph, Thuj.Wrong = Yeh feeling ki maine kuch galat kiya hai.Patient ko lagta hai ki usne zindagi mein koi galti ki hai aur aaj jo takleef woh jhel raha hai woh usi galti ka natija hai. Woh baar baar apni purani galtiyon ko yaad karta hai aur sochta hai ki agar usne us waqt alag faisla liya hota to aaj uski zindagi kuch aur hoti.