Insult humiliation Punishment

Insult = Jaan boojh kar kisi ko neecha dikhana ya uski beizzati karna.

Yeh tab hota hai jab koi shakhs yeh jaante hue bhi ki saamne wala kisi personal reason ya sickness ki wajah se koi kaam nahi kar sakta, usse wahi kaam karne ko kahe, ya uski kamzori sabke saamne ujagar kare. Yeh kisi ki knowledge ki kami ya financial kamzori ko doosron ke saamne highlight karne jaisa hai.—

Humiliation

Humiliation = Kisi insan ka self-respect ya prestige cheen lena.Yeh tab ho sakta hai jab kisi ko uske haq se mehroom kar diya jaye.

Jaise:Kisi important meeting mein shamil na karna.Kisi ritual mein hissa lene se rokna.Kisi ki skill ya knowledge ko acknowledge na karna.

Punishment

Punishment = Kisi galti ki bharpai ke liye saza dena.

Aam taur par agar kisi ne kanooni ya samaji taur par galat kaam kiya ho to saza dena theek mana jata hai.Jo log apni galti maante hain woh saza qabool kar lete hain aur dobara wahi galti nahi karte. Lekin kuch log aise hote hain jo mehsoos karte hain ki unhe zarurat se zyada ya be-wajah saza di gayi.Is wajah se unke andar badla ya nafrat ki feeling paida ho jaati hai un logon ke liye jinhone unhe saza di.—

Rubrics which can be referred for this cause of depression

DELUSIONS; abused; being

Abused = Zulm ka shikar hona ya kisi ke zariye had se zyada istemal kiya jana.Patient mehsoos kar sakta hai ki uska boss apni position ka fayda uthakar usse zyada kaam le raha hai.

Ya parents uski freedom par pabandi laga rahe hain.

Ya friends uska fayda utha rahe hain.Jab tak yeh feeling patient ko zyada affect nahi karti woh ise ignore karta rehta hai ya uske khilaaf ladta rehta hai.

Lekin sickness ke baad patient ke liye ise bardasht karna mushkil ho jata hai.Ya to woh baghawat karta hai ya phir sab kuch seh leta hai.—

AILMENTS FROM; punishment

AILMENTS FROM; mortification

Mortification = Sharmindagi mehsoos karna ya kisi ko control mein rakhna.

Patient keh sakta hai:

• “Mera boss, colleague ya ghar wale mujh par hamesha pressure banaye rakhte hain.”
• “Mujhe apni marzi se kaam nahi karne dete.”
• “Mujhe hamesha kaha jata hai ki apni had mein raho.”
• “Agar main koi baat kehna ya suggest karna chahun to mujhe logon ke saamne rok diya jata hai.”—

AILMENTS FROM; reproaches

Reproach = Halki tanqeed ya halka ilzaam.

Aksar kisi ki irresponsible behaviour ki wajah se uski tanqeed ki jati hai.

Kabhi kabhi halki tanqeed insan ko affect nahi karti.Lekin agar baar baar wahi tanqeed hoti rahe to uska asar zehan par padne lagta hai.

Patient keh sakta hai:

• “Main jo bhi karta hoon usmein mere ghar wale, boss ya dost koi na koi galti nikal dete hain.”
• “Har baar mujhe kaha jata hai ki maine kaam theek se nahi kiya.”

Yeh mumkin hai ki patient waqai irresponsible ho.Lekin phir bhi woh apna ravayya nahi badalta.

DELUSIONS; accused; she is

Accused = Kisi par ilzaam lagana ya usse kisi galat kaam ka zimmedar thehrana.

Yahan patient ki problem yeh hai ki doosre log us par ilzaam lagate hain.

Aksar yeh ilzaam past mein laga hota hai aur uske baad se uski problems shuru hui hoti hain.

Jab patient se poocha jata hai:

“Agar aapse galti hui thi to doosre log ilzaam lagayenge hi, phir aapko itna bura kyun lagta hai?

“Patient keh sakta hai :

• “Mujhe lagta hai mujh par galat ilzaam lagaya gaya.”
• “Maine jaan boojh kar kuch nahi kiya tha.”
• “Meri koi galti nahi thi.”

DELUSIONS; insulted; he is

DELUSIONS; enemy; everyone is an

OFFENDED, EASILY; takes everything in bad part

RAGE; insults; after

SENSITIVE; reprimands; criticism; reproaches to