Ungrateful

 
Adjective 

Ek aisa insaan jisme shukriya ada karne ki aadat nahi hoti, jo kisi ki madad ke badle dhanyavaad nahi bolta aur na hi yeh mehsoos karta hai ki uski madad ki gayi hai. Uske liye yeh koi ehsaas nahi hota ki kisi ne uski help karke uska bhala kiya hai, balki yeh to us madad ko zaroori samajhta hai.

Iske dil mein yeh hota hai ki agar kisi ne meri help ki hai, toh ismein koi badi baat nahi, uska farz tha. Ya yeh sochta hai ki chalo aaj isne meri help kar di, kal main kar doonga. Ya phir yeh bhi soch sakta hai ki agar madad ki bhi toh kya hua, us insaan ke paas toh kaafi paisa ya resources hain, madad karna uska kaam hai.

Aapko apne clinic mein bhi aise log milenge jo aapke ilaj se thik ho jayenge, lekin aapke prati koi shukriya ya izzat ka jazba nahi rakhenge. Aapki dawa se unki bimari theek ho jayegi, lekin ya toh wo iska shrey kisi aur ko de denge ya yeh kahenge ki aapne unse fees li, isliye koi ehsaan nahi kiya. Wo samajhte hain ki doctor ka kaam hi yeh hota hai ki patient ko thik karna hai, toh ismein koi shukriya karne ki baat nahi.

Kai baar aisa hota hai ki dawa aapki hi hoti hai, lekin jab patient thik hota hai toh wo kehta hai ki “maine toh acupressure karaya tha,” “maine koi herbal dawa li thi,” ya “maine koi gharelu nuskha try kiya tha, isliye theek ho gaya.” Aapko pata hota hai ki asli faida uski bimari mein aapki dawa se hi hua hai, lekin wo is baat ko nahi maanta aur aapki dawa ko koi shrey nahi deta. Yeh bhi **Ungrateful** behaviour hota hai.